I have been decluttering for 16 years now. My DH and I buy emotionally. I have found that the ONLY time I can declutter is when my DH is at work. And always anything not used by him for a year or more.
With my kids I do clothes as they come through the laundry. This week the 4 if them (4,6,7,&9 yrs old) went through their rooms and decluttered daily for the first time ever.
I now have books and toys to donate and no way to get it to the van. The snow has buried it and the shovel. Lol. I have found decluttering to be a daily job but I know if i let it go for a time i get overwhelming.
Flying in Wyoming