When was the Last Time

DearĀ  Friends,

How do you like to be treated? With love and respect?

Several years ago, I was in an abusive relationship. All I wanted in life was to just feel loved. I didn’t care whether my Xdh truly loved me or not, I was wanted him to fake it, the result would be that I was feel some sort of affection from him. Well that did not ever happen, unless he wanted something and you know what I am talking about.

We are taught from a young age that in order to receive, we have to give. This goes for every aspect of life. So how do you act toward your spouse? Or for that matter yourself!

At this time in my life, I have the privilege to be married to my wonderful Sweet Darling! I tell him every day that he spoils me rotten and he says that is what he is supposed to do! I am truly blessed by him. His love, completes me! But this goes both ways. I spoil him too! The best part is, I am whole without him and he knows this. His love is the special fertilizer that makes me bloom even more beautifully! It is so hard to describe.

Not long ago while eating in a Chinese Restaurant, I got an interesting fortune cookie!

If you continually give, you will continually have!

When we give our love we will receive love. So who have you spoiled today? When was the last time you did something just because you
wanted to treat someone special.

Friday is our special day for focusing on our relationship. Don’t procrastinate on Date Night! It is important to your relationship! Start planning this before Friday rolls around.

If your sweetie is not around, then I know something you can do! Spoil yourself! Show yourself the love and affection you need. That is what FLYing is all about! Taking care of your needs, when no one else can or will, you have to do it for yourself.

Are you ready to FLY? Finally Loving Yourself!


Calendar250Date Night Tip! Plan it. Get it on your calendar. Make Date Night a Priority!

School is starting soon! Do you have a calendar that covers 2018 to accommodate the whole school schedule.

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