Positive in Everything

testiflyDear FlyLady,

I’m not a full fledged flyer yet, but I’m working on it.

I wanted to write you because I just found out that you receive negative emails.

What baffles me is why people feel compelled to pass along their negativity.  My mother, as I’m sure many mothers, always said, “If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all”.  There’s a lot of validity in that advice.  If you are always looking for the negative, you will find it.  No matter how much good there is, those people will find and dwell on the negative.  The people who have sent you negative emails are flat out looking for negativity.  I feel badly for them for they will have negativity surround them for the rest of their lives.

Those people who look for the positive in everything, will find it.  Their lives will be positive.  Hurray for them – what a better life to live.

Each and everyone of us have those two choices – we can either look on the negative side of life or we can look on the positive side of everything we do.  Please don’t be bothered by those poor negative people.  They have chosen that path in life.

Please just focus on the many positive, appreciative emails.

Starting to fly in California

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