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Thursday Septeber 2, 2010

FLYing in a classroom...

Dear FlyLady,

I have just begun flying. I started a control journal on Tuesday and I already feel more in control. I teach Kindergarten and I can't help but think this whole "process" could benefit my classroom. Do you have any ideas on how to implement "flying" in a classroom?

Thank you.
Kelly Z.

Dear Friend,

My Dear Daughter in Love was a Kindergarten teacher. In her classroom she had a place for everything and the places were labeled. You can do this too: In your classroom or even in your home. She uses this with her two children. There are baskets to put things in and they get put back on their shelves when they are finished or have to put the toys away.

Here is a testimonial from a teacher who uses our FlyLady system with her students.

Hi FlyLady.

I just had to write to you. There have been many times I have wanted to write in, like when my DH began raving about how I should open a restaurant because of the great meals we have now thanks to Menu Mailer, or how much I love the products I have ordered from the shop...some are on my Christmas wish list for this year, or how my friends talk about how overwhelmed they feel with their clutter and then turn to me and say how uncluttered my home feels (I DO always share that it is because of YOU!), or because I finally am using all the beautiful Christmas cards I have bought over the years and never sent out because there was never enough time...they will even have personal messages in them for the family receiving them!

Thank you for all of the peace, love, and hospitality my home offers because of your help. I also wanted to write to tell you how great you are looking, how much I enjoy the video messages...now I have a voice I hear when your reminders pop up.

My reason for writing today though is to say THANK YOU for helping me be a better teacher. I teach a wonderful group of students. We have been together for 2 years now (second and third grade), and they have seen the transformation in our classroom. I went from having piles of papers, books, and who knows what hidden behind my desk, on every flat surface available, to having a clean classroom (some say the nicest they've ever seen!) with empty counter space, empty tables students can work at, and a clear path behind my work area! I have went from having to apologize to students for misplacing assignments, materials, etc, to having EVERYTHING ready each day without having to waste precious time searching for things. I feel more peaceful, and so do my students. So, what is my secret?

Routines! I have a before school, preptime, and after school routine. I also have zones and my own personal shiny sink. After realizing how well this has worked for me at home and at school...it dawned on me that this could help my students too! So on Monday, we made our own Morning Routine and Afternoon Routine. I handed out dry erase markers and page protectors and now we are all FLYING! Students that have never turned in homework are now turning in their folders in the morning. Students are not forgetting their tools they need in order to do their homework each night. Of course, because I get to see their routines, they are able to see my page of routines. We encourage each other. Some students even leave their routines out all day on the corner of their desk. They like seeing that they have accomplished things and can check them off.

My favorite part is listening to the students while they use their routines. Smile is the last thing on their list for morning and afternoon and I often hear students comment that they already have a smile on their face so they can cross it off first. Of course the bottom of each page lets them know I am proud of them. It means so much to them...and me. Thank you for your website. It is changing classrooms, as well as homes.

Love,
Mrs. FlyBaby in Wisconsin

- FlyLady


Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Can't find it #2...

Dear FlyLady,

Hi there!

Is an example of the Student Control Journal on the FlyLady website for us to download, or do we need to buy one? I can't seem to find it. If it's there for us to down-load, please would you send me the link?

Thanks so much! Flybaby Y South Africa.

Dear Friend,

We are getting a ton of questions asking for our Student Control Journal. I think a lot of the problem has to do with us being in a hurry and a great big tizzy! I want you to take a few minutes today to calm yourself. I know there is a lot going on with school starting back but when you are in such a tizzy nothing gets accomplished. I have an essay brewing about this.

Here is the deal; I can give you a fish and you will eat for a day or I can teach you to fish and you will eat for a lifetime. I am going to teach you how to fish on our website.

There are several ways to find the Student Control Journal.

1. This is the easiest way to find anything on our website. Use our Google Search box. Scroll down on our homepage and you will see it under the navigation links on the left. Put Student Control Journal into the box.

2. Go to the Table of Contents. You will see a link under FLY Zone for FlyLady's Control Journals. Click on that link and it will take you to all the free Control Journals. If you click on the Control Journal link in the navigation bar it will take you to the instructions for building your very own Control Journal.

3. The next way to find it is to scroll down on our homepage to the Red Back to School Section. There is a link in the 3rd paragraph break.

The Google Search Box is the easiest way to find anything on our website. We love Google! Use it to calm yourself down when you are frantically searching for something.

Google is a stress reliever.

- FlyLady


Tuesday, August 31, 2010

Can't find it...

Dear FlyLady,

Hi--- love all your help with my home!! I hope I was not dreaming when I was reading on your site--- A control journal for kids! I can not find it again although I have spent lots of time looking! Can you help me find it please?

Thanks, J in MD

Dear Friend,

Have you tried using our Google Search box? This works well for any thing you may want to find on our website. Please give it a try.

You can do a search on Control Journal or a search for Student Control Journal. The Control Journal search will give you a link to all the Control Journals I have written for your family.

The Google Search box is on the left side of our page; just below the navigation links. Go look for it now and play with it. Lee thought we needed this great tool. We also have one on the Hey Tom website.

- FlyLady


Monday, August 30, 2010

Kids reminder emails...

Dear FlyLady,

My children are 13 and 9 and FLYing has CHANGED OUR LIFE! Every morning when I finally sit down to check my Email, there you are waiting with friendly reminders :) My kids ask me about it, is there any way to have a KIDS reminder email? Your reminders are so much sweeter and cuter than mom's! In addition, they are always checking their Email and they are disappointed when they have nothing.... Just an idea!

Flying with my Family in Virginia

Dear Friend,

This is not something we are going to try again. We did have a group once for children but it did not work well. We have to protect our children from predators. I do have an idea. Set up your own family Bigtent group and set up reminders for your children from Bigtent. You know what they need. Keep it simple. Let them help you with it too. This way they will learn to use reminders to keep them on track.

You could use the Camp Control Journal or the Student Control Journal as your guide. Let the kids help you name the group. Tell them why you are doing it. You don't want to be a nag and it is their group to help them and you!

It is very easy to set up a group on Yahoo. Here is where you start. Make sure you do not list the group in the directory.

http://www.bigtent.com/

The kids are going to be better at this than you. They can help you but you have to be a part of this too. It is OK to get reminders from yourself. I send myself reminders all the time to drink my water.

- FlyLady

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