Dear Flylady,

Marla, I have to tell you that I love you, from the bottom of my heart. I came from a hordeing situation growing up and I had no clue how to do any type of house work. I was 19 in a foreign country freshly married with no idea on how to be a SAHW. You changed my life, opening my mind one baby step at a time.

Over the years as a military wife I always stumbled and fell with each move, my in place routines would change or be altered in many different ways and it would take me months (and on a few occasions years) to get my feathers unfurled. Ive been following you now for 10 years and all I can say is thank you. I learned from you that I deserve love, I deserve a clean and welcoming home and I also learned what I dont deserve. All because of your little voice inside of my head.

She still goes quiet every once in a while but she always comes back with gentle words and all kinds of love in her heart and I thank you.

Flybaby Merry