Dear FlyLady,
Thanks to your daily pampering reminders I am no longer sporting the “martyred mom” look! Oh how you know that we put ourselves off so consistently that a year will go by before we finally go get a haircut. I made those appointments to use those spa gift cards I received LAST Christmas, finally bought some hand weights for loving movement, and a new pair of sneakers. My feel don’t hurt anymore, my skin is glowing, and my attitude is brighter! And just wanted to add I love those things you and your team say that seem so obvious once you say them! (Why didn’t I think of that before?!). Today’s nugget was “Enjoying the process is what keeps us from feeling like a martyr!” Thank you for reminding me that housework is not an end in and of itself but just something that allows us to live in peace (and that I can enjoy the process). Karen in VA |